inspiration for a book themed wedding

Are you familiar with The Plaid Barn?  It's kind of like Groupon in that it offers daily deals but it's specifically for crafty folks.  Today's deal is one I thought would be perfect for brides planning a book themed wedding or library themed wedding: a set of 18 old-fashioned library checkout cards in salmon, goldenrod, and blue for .97 (plus shipping)!

Post edited on 6/21 to add:  Thanks so much to The Plaid Barn for featuring Beyond the Aisle on their Facebook page!  Welcome new visitors; if you would like to add any of the images in this post to your Pinterest or blog please visit the original source by clicking on the link below the image and pin/save from there so the creators get the credit.  Enjoy!

The Plaid Barn

In case you're wondering, "what do library checkout cards have to do with weddings?" here is some inspiration for you:

Design.Mein via Wedding Whims

Luna and Chloe Weddings via Postcards and Pretties

Elizabeth Anne Designs

This would also make a great placecard idea - especially if there was 

a heartfelt note from the bride or groom tucked into that pocket!

Similar pockets can be found on Etsy.

Elizabeth Anne Designs

Card catalogs can be found on Etsy as well; they're a little

pricey but would make such interesting home decor after the wedding

that I think it would be worth the investment.

Intimate Weddings

Jessi Haack Weddings via Indulgy

The same pockets and cards would make a very unique guestbook.

Project Wedding

These checkout cards would also be great for a book-themed baby shower (those are a "thing" now, and I love it!), for a super-organized classroom library (as an English teacher, there's no way my brain wasn't going there!), or even for your home library if you're a little obsessive about your books.

The Plaid Barn did not compensate me for this post in any way - I just spotted the deal in my e-mail this morning and had to share it with y'all!

Again:  If you'd like to add any of the images in this post to your Pinterest boards, please click the link below the image and pin from the source so the creator gets the credit they deserve.  Thank you.

Happy Planning!

simple kind of life.

I am thoroughly loving small town life.  Going to the polls and 

having a co-worker running for town council give you a hug?

That's the kind of thing that makes me happy.  Seeing former

students when we're shopping for groceries; seeing friends out

for a walk when we go out to dinner at a favorite restaurant.

A craving for the simple kind of life I'm starting to achieve has

been with me for a long time.  Being able to drive a few miles

and find pretty much whatever I need (though not necessarily

whatever I want) is such a nice luxury, and the country townhouse

is plenty of space for two people in the beginning of their life.

We've got our little tribe now, too, people who I know love us,

trust us, and can always be counted on to attend a very nerdy

movie like The Raven, The Avengers... as long as there's food.

Sometimes you have to wear/buy something just because it's fun.

We're on a tight budget right now since school is out for the

summer, but becoming smarter shoppers is really starting to

be rewarding - although we get strange looks from the checkout

boy when we buy in bulk - is he not aware of his store's sales?

Frozen yogurt and campfire s'mores are mandatory for hot weather.

clicks of note.

Do you hear that?  It's me, breathing a sigh of relief and breathing in the summer air.  It's really here.  And that means more time to blog- although I've been doing some deep thinking about how I can use my online identity to impact the education world, I don't think this little space where I muse about things I think are pretty/helpful/inspiring is going anywhere anytime soon.

LISTEN.

• My darling sister-in-law got me Florence + The Machine's new album Ceremonials for my birthday and I love it almost as much as Lungs.  This song is "Lover to Lover."  Definitely crank-it-up-and-sing-it-loud music.

LOOK.

• It's probably a good thing I didn't know about lover.ly while planning my wedding because that is where I would have spent ALL MY TIME.  It's kind of like Google images for event planning.
• I got very excited about Glitter Guide's Style at Home feature with Kate Arends of Wit and Delight- she consistantly inspires me via her blog, Pinterest, and Tumblr (which, I warn you, is a rabbit hole of awesome- I'll look at the clock and be shocked by how much time has passed!).  I believe she has an amazing eye for pure, classy, unique style.

READ.

• As a newlywed (can I still say that when it's been almost a year?) I try not to dwell too much on other people's marriage advice, but when multiple ladies offer the same advice, I listen (still working on that going to bed at the same time thing).  Joanna Goddard from A Cup of Jo gives some interesting advice for vacationing couples:  taking some solo time to explore.  I am intrigued.  Hopefully we'll get some time, even if just a weekend, to take an adventure together this summer.

EAT.

• Healthier General Tso's Chicken from Everyday with Rachael Ray was on our menu this week, and it is so delicious!  Be very careful of the hot oil if you try this one - the recipe calls for medium-high heat, but I found that relatively low heat and a slightly longer cooking time got the job done just as well with less fear of oil popping on my arms.

father's day.

As long time readers of this blog know, my father passed away on Christmas Day right in the middle of my fourth year of college.  What I haven't written enough about is how my husband's family was absolutely there for me every step of the way when I lost my dad, even though they hadn't known me for a very long time at that point.  I absolutely love my in-laws, and I know how lucky I am to be able to say that.

The Q fam.

So this Father's Day, I am thinking of my dad, of course, but also about how cool it is that God created marriage to join families together, and that by becoming a wife I also got a mom, dad, and sister to adore.

JQ and his dad - who was his best man on our big day

Mr. Q's dad is a model of awesome faith and support for his family, and for me, too.

my goal for 27: be more considerate

I turned 27 last month.  I got to spend the Saturday before my birthday with some of the people I love most in the world.  It all started with something small I said to my husband: "I want to make s'mores for my birthday."

The ball started rolling from there- the next thing I knew, Heather's S'mores & More Birthday Party was a Thing.  A Facebook event, actually.  Did we have a location?  No way.  Did I have a panic attack when I realized Mr. Q had invited all of those people with no plan for feeding and entertaining them?  I did, and I am not proud of it at all, because he had faith in the tribe of people who love us and I did not.

My mother said it would be fine for us to have a little party at her house.  Our dear friend Scotty said he'd be happy to bring his gas grill, and, by the way, he had three pounds of chicken he'd bought in bulk and wanted to get rid of.

Something I learned?  A good friend RSVPs without even knowing when the party will be or where it will take place.  A good Southern friend does all of the above AND asks what kind of dish she can bring.

At the beginning of 2012, a lot of bloggers were posting one word that they wanted to live by for the year.  I never made a blog post, but I did start a GRACE board on Pinterest, inspired by this bit of loveliness from Emily Ley:

Back in January, my mind was really opened by the idea of allowing myself grace: allowing myself to be flawed, imperfect, and real.  I think it's helped me survive the huge continuing transition from being a single girl living at home with my mom to being a married woman with all the added pressures and responsibilities that entails.

Then I saw this quote from Plato on Decor to Adore.  It especially rang true to my middle school teacher heart, and it got added to my concept of GRACE:

I've had a few instances recently where I've realized that I am, so often, so inadequate as a friend, a wife, and a daughter.  I fall so short of the love I am surrounded by.  I can be very, very selfish- wrapped up in my own stress and not realizing that those folks who support me have their own battles to fight.

My birthday gifts - the presence of my friends, and the physical objects in (of course) cute bags that I did not anticipate receiving- humbled me.  They reminded me how blessed I am to have these people.  Friends who knew me in sixth grade and still love me today.  Friends who buy me ridiculously appropriate gifts like a DVD of both Dr. Quinn: Medicine Woman movies; the teal peacock journal I wanted to buy myself but couldn't justify the splurge; a cheesy mug with a line about girlfriends on it that made me tear up - gifts that remind me that I am known, that I am cared for, that I am valuable outside of my own mind.

So here's my goal for myself as a 27-year-old: to be more considerate.  To stop being the sun and start being a planet.

Sunday Simplicity #73

Style Me Pretty

I think there must be something in me that wants to host another party, judging from the sorts of images I'm drawn to this week...

clicks of note.

It's the last week of the 2011-2012 school year for me.  Field day, talent show (my pet project), BOGO book fair, yearbook party, eighth grade completion ceremony, and probably collapsing when it's all said and done.  Let's do this!

LISTEN

• The band is Fitz and the Tantrums.  The song is "We Don't Gotta Work It Out."  I can't stop listening to it!  This version was recorded live in Amsterdam and I love that it's just a shade more quirky and more beginning-of-summer than the studio version (which you can hear in the official video).  I would love to see this band perform live - I get the impression that it would be a blast.

DROOL.

Inspired By This

• My favorite things about this South Carolina wedding featured on Inspired By This are the single bridesmaid being the groom's daughter (not to mention her gorgeous confection of a bridesmaid's dress), the bride's two hairstyles (fancy updo for the wedding, down and curly for the receptions), and the florals (I'm on a peach kick).
• I've written about how much I love James' blog Bleubird Vintage before; do yourself a favor and watch James + Aubrey's wedding video.  I got all teary eyed and I don't even know these people in real life!
• Style Me Pretty's Friday wedding floral feature last week was peonies, and Green Wedding Shoes and The Bride's Cafe collaborated on this peony tabletop tutorial You're welcome.

INSPIRE.

• One of the all-time most popular posts on this little ol' blog is my Letters to Juliet inspiration board... clearly, people want to know what Sophie and Charlie's dream wedding would look like.  Which makes me wonder... what other fictional couples' weddings would you like to see me virtually plan?  Harry and Ginny?  Hawkeye and Black Widow?  Wait, is my inner nerd showing too much?

EAT

• Now that my summer is beginning, I'm all about the frozen desserts.  Design Crush featured an amazing round-up of ice cream, sorbet, gelato, and fro-yo recipes last week.
• I want an ice pop mold (like this one from Target).  My ice cream maker is delightful, but sometimes I want the frozen-solid juicy goodness that only ice pops can provide.  First on my list would be these nectarine-strawberry pops from Martha Stewart.
• I've gotten really lazy about cooking lately - I blame the stress of grading final projects, state standardized testing, and keeping up with parent communication - what food/recipe blogs and websites are you addicted to right now?

Have a great week, darlings!

Sunday Simplicity #72

Style Me Pretty

Check out the rest of this beautiful lemon themed wedding featured on Style Me Pretty!