Wednesday, January 8

inspiration for a radiant orchid winter wedding

It's no secret that purple is my all-time favorite, and after putting together yesterday's feature on Pantone's Color of the Year for 2014, Radiant Orchid, I was inspired to envision a glamorous winter wedding featuring this rich, saturated royal shade.

"South Beach" from Invitations by Ajalon

The 1920's and Art Deco design were very popular in 2013 and 
I don't see this trend going away anytime soon!  One of my favorite 
places to feature Art Deco inspiration in weddings is in paper goods - 
invitations, programs, menus, escort cards can all be personalized 
with 1920's-inspired typefaces and embellishments.


Eggplant-toned succulents make an unexpectedly elegant boutonniere.


I love the Kate Spade heels this bride chose - check out her gorgeous
wedding photographed by Maria Vicencio over at Brides.com.


Alvina Valenta silk bridal gown by JLM Couture | Allan Zepeda via Style Me Pretty

Tuesday, January 7

Happy 2014: Radiant Orchid + Magenta

2014 is here, and with it, a new Pantone color of the year.  This year the color experts have chosen Radiant Orchid and I have to say, I am really happy with their choice!

Happy 2014: Radiant Orchid & Magenta

View this set on Polyvore

1. LOFT slubbed tee  2. Our World Boutique statement necklace 
 3. Printable party horns from Love the Day  4. Mossimo sweater dress from Target  
5. Pop Fizz Clink balloons from The Flair Exchange on Etsy
6. Covergirl nail polish in "Pink Lady" from Ulta  7. Wildfox t-shirt (very DIY-able, I think)  
8. Victoria's Secret bra  9. J. Crew Factory cardigan  10. Tignanello handbag from QVC




Monday, January 6

clicks of note: no freedom without love...

get your week off to a colorful start...
LISTEN.
  • Do you ever find yourself asking, "Whatever happened to Dido?"  Perhaps while watching Love Actually and also asking, "Is that Rick Grimes?"  The answers:  she's still doing her thing, and it totally is Rick Grimes.  This song, "No Freedom" is super pretty, and very Zen, which I may need today as I begin a new semester at work, with 50+ new teenagers (I mean that in both senses:  they are new to me, and also fairly new to being teenagers) in my classroom.  Not all at once, thank goodness.

SWOON.

SMILE.

FLASHBACK.


Sunday, January 5

sunday simplicity: simple abundance...


"Whatever we are waiting for -
 peace of mind, contentment, grace, 
the inner awareness of simple abundance - 
it will surely come to us, but only 
when we are ready to receive it 
with an open and grateful heart."

- Sarah Ban Breathnach


Friday, January 3

who to follow on instagram: january

Who to Follow on Instagram

I spent part of last weekend teaching one of my best friends to use Instagram, and recently introduced another friend to the joy that is #fmsphotoaday.  Instagram keeps me inspired every day and continues to be my favorite form of social media.  For bloggers, it's also a great way to promote new posts and projects.  If you're just getting started on Instagram, or you want to shake up your feed with some colorful new images, here are a few accounts I love following: 

A Beach CottageBright Bazaar

A Beach Cottage - Sarah maintains one of the loveliest blogs on the web, and her Instagram account features shots of her simply decorated Sydney home, beautiful beaches, and her family's precious dog.

Bright Bazaar - Will, from the blog of the same name, captures images in his travels and wanderings that are just as delightful as his colorful blog posts.


Kat Tanita - The blogger behind With Love from Kat maintains a pretty stream of photos from her fashionable, just-styled-enough life in New York City.

Justin Chung - a New York based photographer shares behind-the-scenes shots of his work and daily life, all perfectly framed.

Are you on Instagram?  I'd love to follow you - 
leave your username in a comment to this post 
(you can follow me here). 

Thursday, January 2

my winter in enertainment

november/december 2013 in entertainment

movies I saw

Thor: The Dark World - Thor is my favorite Marvel superhero, and I think I enjoyed the second Thor movie even more because we've gotten to know his character in the first film and in Avengers.  Jane, Dr. Selvig, and even Darcy (Kat Dennings) are back in the sequel, which has Jane stumbling across a mysterious alien force that was hidden on earth from a planet whose people are determined to cast the whole universe in darkness.  Most of the movie's action takes place on Asgard, which takes away the "what about the other Avengers?" issue.  Even though it was full of action and laughs, there was also a lot of pathos in the film - I found myself tearing up twice.  And even though Thor is the star, Tom Hiddleston really steals the show as Loki.



The Hunger Games: Catching Fire - I saw this on opening night with a packed theater full of teens, moms, and English teachers!  Any negative comments I had about the first Hunger Games movies are resolved in this film - this is the world I pictured while reading the books - gritty, exaggerated, yet somehow believable.  Jennifer Lawrence is amazing as always, Josh Hutcherson brings Peeta more personality, and Elizabeth Banks and Lenny Kravitz shine even in supporting roles.  I thought the movie was very true to the book, and thought the filmmakers did a very good job of capturing the suspense, horror, and claustrophobia of Katniss' second trip to the arena.



The Mortal Instruments: City of Bones - I received this movie on Blu-Ray for Christmas and was very excited because I really regretted not getting to see it in the theater.  I loved Cassandra Clare's Mortal Instruments series and this movie brings that urban fantasy world to life in a really beautiful way.  The only other movie I've seen Lily Collins in is The Blind Side, so I didn't really know what kind of acting skills to expect, and now I'm kind of in love.  Actually, all of the casting was pretty much right on, and I'm so happy that the second film is currently in production.  This time I WILL make it to the theater.


Anchorman 2: The Legend Continues - I loved Anchorman and still quote it all the time even though it came out almost ten years ago.  Sadly, Anchorman 2 did not live up to my expectations.  The funniest moments were recycled versions of the first movie, and some of the new directions the plot went in fell flat (racism wasn't funny in 1980 and it definitely isn't funny now) or just didn't make sense (ice skating, baby sharks).  Will Ferrel's car commercials as Ron Burgundy were funnier than this movie.




books i read

Stolen into Slavery (YA Nonfiction) - Before I saw previews for 12 Years a Slave, I'd never heard of Solomon Northup, and the film looked really intense, so I decided to learn about this true story in a format directed toward teens first.  Usually I'm not a huge nonfiction fan, but I couldn't put this book down because I had to know what happened to Solomon.  This brave, determined man's name should be familiar to every American, as should the reality that free African-Americans were kidnapped and sold into slavery in the years before the Civil War and had no legal recourse when it happened.  I'm going to read Solomon's biography, Twelve Years a Slave, to learn more about his life.

The Lost Hero by Rick Riordan (MG Fantasy) - I loved the Percy Jackson books, so I was looking forward to the next series set in the same universe.  However, I had a really hard time getting into The Lost Hero.  The original series used first-person narration, and Riordan gave Percy a sarcastic voice that I loved. In The Lost Hero, Riordan uses a third person omniscient style to introduce three new heroes, Jason, Piper, and Leo.  I had trouble keeping up with which character I was reading about and investing in their backgrounds and storylines, and Jason, the new Percy-type character, was suffering from amnesia and lacked personality.  I also felt like Riordan recycled a lot of plot points from the first series, just sticking Jason in where Percy had been and changing the names and settings slightly.  My students seem to be enjoying the new books, but I don't think I'll be continuing the series.


Allegiant by Veronica Roth (YA Fantasy) - Allegiant is totally different from Divervent and Insurgent. First, because Roth alternates between Tris' and Tobias' points of view.  The narration worked because their personalities are so different, it allows readers to know what's happening in more than one place, and it was essential to the book's ending having an emotional impact.  Second, Allegiant was different because the characters, encouraged by the video from Tris' ancestor that was released at the end of Insurgent, leave their sheltered city (Chicago) and find out what's going on outside.  In the outside world, being Divergent carries a different significance, and creates tension in Tris and Tobias' relationship.  I won't say much more, because I don't want to spoil anyone, just that the ending did make me cry.


Ninth Ward by Jewell Parker Rhodes(MG Fiction) - I wasn't quite sure how to classify this one, because it sits somewhere in between historical fiction and fantasy.  When Lanesha's unwed mother died giving birth to her in New Orleans' Ninth Ward, her superstitious midwife, Mama Ya-Ya, took her in.  Since Mama Ya-Ya has prophetic dreams and Lanesha can see and talk to ghosts, their life together is never boring. Throughout her childhood, classmates have regarded Lanesha with caution, calling her a witch and bullying her, but sixth grade is off to a better start.  She likes her young, enthusiastic teachers, enjoys learning new vocabulary words and how to solve math problems, and has made two close friends who are each a little different in their own ways.  When Mama Ya-Ya sees Hurricane Katrina coming, they prepare for the worst, and Lanesha has to call on all of her fortitude and intelligence in the days of flooding that follow.


goal setting: what worked in 2013

I really appreciate the way Lara Casey's goal setting series is encouraging me to reflect and think deeply about where I am right now as I set goals for the new year.  I thought I'd share my ideas about what "worked" for me in 2013, and I hope you'll share yours in the comments!



What worked in 2013:
  • Making my "work friends" part of my social life.  I was kind of hesitant to do this - I think I was worried that if I spent too much time with my co-workers outside of school, we'd get tired of each other.  Mr. Q and I have been spending more time with some of the other teachers in my department and their husbands, and I've started inviting them to more outings with my friends, and it's been awesome.  My friends love my coworkers and vice versa.  When I was student teaching, something that really made an impression on me was how close the third grade team was - they were clearly there for each other no matter what, knew each others' families, and spent time together outside of school.  It helped them function even better as a team, and I think it will do the same for my department.  
  • Giving students a clean slate.  At the end of the 2011-2012 school year, the sixth grade teachers passed a box of party noisemakers to the seventh grade team leaders.  In the 2012-2013 school year, the seventh grade teachers were frustrated, depressed, and worn down.  Veteran teachers were writing referrals, yelling, and developing health issues they'd never had before.  We eighth grade teachers were kind of living in fear over June and July.  In August, we met as a team and decided that the most important thing we could do for our students was to never mention their reputation.  We had a grade-level assembly that I tried to make as much like a summer camp opening assembly as possible - high energy, welcoming, positive.  Yes, this group is kind of needy.  But we have had nowhere near the types of discipline issues these same students' teachers dealt with in previous years.
  • Scheduling exercise.  I signed up for a weekly yoga class this past semester through our local parks and rec department.  I was the youngest person in the class, but I ended up absolutely loving it.  I hadn't done yoga in a class since college, and this class is so great - no pressure, no competition, no intimidation, just a guaranteed hour of time to do something that is good for my body and mind.  I have learned over the past two years of so that forcing myself into exercise I don't enjoy - like going to a gym - is NEVER going to pay off.  Making time for what I do like - yoga, walking, dance, biking on the greenway - is so important.  I was worried that I wouldn't have time for my yoga class, but I've never felt like that hour could have been better spent.  I am definitely signing up again this month!
  • Meal planning.  Using the weekly savings as a guide to look for recipes and plan at least three real meals every week has saved money and time, and I've gotten a lot more confident in my cooking skills.  I also tried brussels sprouts for the first time this year and they are one of my favorite foods now, so there's that.
  • Being available to volunteer opportunities.  Spending a week at the 4-H camp where I used to work as a volunteer this summer was so wonderful.  The first few years in the adult volunteer role were kind of awkward - I felt left out of what my friends who were still on staff were doing, missed teaching a class and leading songs.  Now enough time has passed that the people on staff were campers when I was a staff member and they were great to work with.  I also felt like my knowledge about camp was really valued by our camp directors.  I tried to be really flexible - I offered to bunk with another county's campers because they were short on volunteers, and to help with horsemanship because no one usually wants to, and by offering to do both of those things I was able to forge some great new friendships.  I also agreed to help with state 4-H Congress this summer and got to spend an afternoon with two wonderful friends.
  • Saying "yes" to being weird - sure, I'll dress up in a Goodwill grandma sweater for wacky tacky day at school, go to a cat circus, have colored cornmeal thrown at me.  Why not?
Your Turn!

What worked for YOU in 2013?  What were your greatest successes?  What surprised you?  What are you most proud of?  I'd love to hear it in the comments :)

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Wednesday, January 1

goal setting for 2014: challenges and gratitude

Happy New Year, Y'all!  Southern Weddings' Lara Casey has kicked off a goal-setting series on her blog and it has really been inspiring me.  I'm going to be posting my responses to some of the prompts she has been sharing as I work on my goals for the new year.



Three things challenging me lately
  • I really cannot wrap my brain around the semester that begins next week.  I am still reeling from the test scores I received a few weeks ago and feeling very defeated.  I feel like I just don't know how to teach reading and writing in a semester in a way that prepares my students for the new, more rigorous state tests.  I am not the only one who feels overwhelmed - the rest of my department faced similar scores and even our principal is looking for solutions we haven't tried yet.  We only have two workdays before the new semester begins, which is definitely not enough time for us to overhaul an entire curriculum.  Knowing that I will be starting the semester teaching with materials and methods that were not successful in the eyes of the state is very depressing to me.
  • I am working on a fiction writing project, and I am in love with the characters and setting I've come up with, but in all my world-building I am having a very hard time figuring out what the central conflict is going to be.
  • Even though I love our country townhouse, I feel so ready to move onto our own land in our own home - but financially, that is not possible right now.  I'm tired of being able to hear our neighbors through the walls, not being able to paint the walls, and not having space to entertain guests the way I'd like to. 

Three things I am grateful for today
  • A husband who knows me so well and just "gets" me - I never have to explain myself to him or apologize for just being human.
  • My mom is older than most of my friends' parents, since I was a late-in-life surprise baby, but she is still so healthy and able and smart and funny.  I am so blessed to have a mom who is truly my best friend and it makes me proud when my relatives say that I am a lot like her.  
  • My department chair at work is simply amazing.  She is so caring and somehow manages to organize the curriculum map, testing schedule, and order materials for three grades' worth of English teachers while also managing her own classroom, lesson plans, and student behavior without missing a beat.  She is very committed to helping us conquer the new test in our own way, without bringing in new programs we don't want.